I'm yelling HELP and then I notice that everyone is wearing earplugs. When there's a death in the family, friends and family are there for you. The following day their lives return to normal. Then it's time to clean out the house etc. but NO ONE wants to help get rid of the 'stuff' that was left behind from that life. Lots of excuses surface. They'll all gladly receive the money bequeathed to them though. I've decided to do no more asking. I'll do the work myself but it will take longer and probably some stuff of value will get pitched. Meanwhile I'll still be paying all the bills . . . out of 'their' inheritance not mine. Being dumped on doesn't feel good. I'm angry.