I hope I'm in the right spot to post this question. Basically my wife and I are wanting to start the process of getting our concealed carry licenses. We live way out in the country and there are literally no cops around so most people just carry, no big deal. But I want to do it right, especially for when we go in to town or go to the city... So a couple questions about the application.... 20 years ago, I got arrested for having a marijuana pipe, got bailed out before I even stepped in the cell, got differed, which I think means it's no longer on my record. So, on the application, when it asks if I've ever been convicted of a misdemeanor, do I put 'yes' or 'no', being that it's no longer on my record? Would a very minor pot charge 20 years ago be a deal breaker? Also, what about my wife, she had a DUI like 7 years ago before we met? I live in Oklahoma, does it vary from state to state? Thanks in advance for any help